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Name: Samantha Grace Murphy.
Nickname: Sam, Sami. (People who don't know her won't know this, but also: Smurph, Smurphy, Smurphette, Sam Bam.)
Age: Mid-late 30s.
Hometown: Born in Montreal, Quebec. Raised outside of Toronto, Ontario. She's Canadian!
Currently Resides: New York, Toronto, Las Vegas, London - those would be most likely, but any big city will do. If she's away from Canada, she makes regular trips to the Toronto area to visit her father, as well as trips to her family's cabin in Northern Ontario.
Height: 5'6"
General Description: Curvy and athletic build, not super jacked but definitely muscular. Her stomach is flat and toned but she doesn't have like, super abs or anything. She has blonde hair, always long, sometimes dyed with highlights or streaks of various colors, and blue eyes.
Distinguishing Marks: She has a few small scars on her forehead from getting cut during her wrestling years, and a mark at her left eyebrow from where she used to have it pierced. If one looks closely they might guess her nose has been broken before. Her ears are currently pierced twice in each earlobe. There are scars on her stomach, mostly around her lower abdomen. Most prominent of these would be two stab wound scars, and also a few small surgical scars. She has a surgical scar on her right knee, but it's very faint. Other smaller scars are scattered around her body from various injuries over the years. The only ones she will actively hide are the large scars on her stomach.
She also has several tattoos: a small pair of angel wings on the back of her neck with "grace" written below in a flowing script, the words "love you forever" on her right wrist in her late mother's handwriting, a four-leaf clover on her right hip, a maple leaf on her right hip,
Personality: Sami is generally pretty friendly. She's got some of that stereotypical Canadian Niceness. That said, she does have an edge and sometimes her temper is easily triggered. As much as she gets into fights, she generally won't throw the first punch, but she's more than willing to run her mouth. She'll stand up for people getting bullied. When she's truly pissed off, her insults can be cruel and vicious, though never racist/homophobic/transphobic. At her very worst, she might get a little sexist, at the worst calling someone a bitch or insulting a guy's manhood. Mostly she'd find something the object of her fury is sensitive about and focus on that.
She does have a pretty strong Canadian accent, and she says 'eh' a lot. She can mimic accents fairly well and might disguise her accent with something more neutral, or something completely different.
Once she's friends with someone, she's pretty loyal, and generally available for all kinds of favors. She loves kids, and is generally pretty good with them. Strong auntie energy. As much as she wants to be a mom, it's not really in the cards for her for one reason or another. She's very family oriented. Her father and brother are the most important people in her life, and the same would apply to any found family situations she gets into. (I'm open to AUs where she is either a single mother or becomes a mother with the right ship. If it goes that way we can adjust!)
Alignment: Chaotic Good, mostly, but an argument could be made for Lawful Neutral. She definitely has her own code that she lives by. Ultimately she wants to do Good. She also understands that sometimes Bad things have to be done to achieve certain goals. She's probably a "For The Greater Good" kind of person. When she finds a cause she's generally devoted to it, and she isn't the type to pull the ladder up behind herself, she wants to help those who come after her. It's why she gets into training after she ends her career as a professional wrestler. She also might teach self-defense courses.
Sexuality and Gender Identity
: Sami is a straight, cisgender woman. She has questioned and experimented, but ultimately she prefers men both sexually and romantically. Occasionally she will take female or non-binary lovers, but she'll be up front that she is only looking for sex. It could be said that she's a "tomboy" because she doesn't always dress strictly femininely, but she embraces her femininity and does enjoy getting all dolled up when the occasion calls for it. She is a staunch supporter of LGBTQ+ rights, because it's the right thing, and also because of the many queer folks she knows. Her brother is bisexual, as is her father.
Romantic Inclinations: However prickly she may seem about getting close to anyone, she's a big fuckin' romantic. She loves love, and desperately wants love. Her parents had something of a fairytale relationship up until her mother's death, and deep down that's ultimately what she wants. Unfortunately her romantic choices have largely been... bad. Sami's had a lot of abusive relationships, with one in particular ending up with her getting stabbed, hence the scars on her stomach. In some versions of this she ends up killing that ex in self-defense, in others he dies in prison, in others still he could be waiting to come after her and finish her off. By default, as she is written, she is months or years removed from this attack and learning to love/trust again. She generally goes for athletic types, but she also can't deny simple chemistry - if she hits it off with someone, she'll give it a go, whether that's a relationship or just a hookup.
Upbringing: Sami was raised in a wealthy family, as her father was a professional hockey player in the NHL until he retired, and then worked as an analyst in the media. He's a beloved figure locally, as is her brother Jay, who went on to play in the NHL as well. Though she grew up with money, she is used to scraping by on her own - as much as her family is willing to help her, she is often too stubborn to accept unless the situation is truly dire. She was a bit of a terror as a kid, getting kicked out of girls' hockey for being too rough. Her whole life, she'd been a wrestling fan, but it wasn't until her teenage years that she got it in her head that it was something she could actually do. After much pleading, her father agrees to sign off on allowing her to begin training at age sixteen, and she takes to it like a fish to water. It's something that finally gives her focus and purpose in her young life. That does go off the rails through her twenties as she gets into drugs and bad relationships, and ultimately it costs her the opportunity to have any kind of successful career in the wrestling business. The Murphys belong to a Catholic church, and though Neil attends sometimes, neither Sami nor her brother Jay are practicing at all. (They pretty much go for like, Christmas or whatever.) Sami was extremely close with her mother until Grace Murphy's death when Sami was around age eleven, after a long sickness. Neil Murphy never marries again, much less dates anyone. The loss strengthened the bond between the remaining Murphy clan.
After graduating high school and turned 18, she started taking independent wrestling gigs around the Toronto area. From there she branched out and gradually moved farther away, eventually spending time in Mexico, the UK, and Japan to hone her craft and perform. She's also performed all around the US. In addition to her wrestling training, she has also received training in multiple legitimate fighting styles. She is skilled with boxing and kickboxing, as well as various styles of martial arts, and she is very knowledgeable about submission holds and ways to subdue a foe. She speaks fluent French (she learned this as a child, from her mother), as well as fluent Spanish, and is mostly fluent in Japanese. She also speaks some Russian and German - enough to ask basic questions and get around if she had to. Sami isn't the most academic of people, but she likes learning languages and has an affinity for it.
 
If you read all that, thank you. You're a fuckin' legend. Now, a little about me!

Name: Julien (formerly Des)
Age: 40
Location: USA, east coast (so eastern time zone)
Writing Preferences: I tend to match my partners, tbh. I'm cool with prose or brackets, present or past tense. I will say though, that I do a fair amount of tagging on my phone, and prose makes that easier because I will fuck up HTML formatting on mobile.
OOC contact: I am on Discord at juliensalad - I only ask that you DM me here to let me know who you are if adding me on Discord. DMs in general are always welcome.
Writing Schedule/Speed: I don't really have a set schedule, it's basically whenever I have the time and attention span. Either boomerang tags or I get distracted by stuff and reply more sporadically. I also have multiple RP accounts here (you are welcome to ask if you'd like to know about them), so I may be inspired to write one character more than another at any given time. But as far as my life/job, I work a weekday 9-5 type gig so I'm around the most on nights and weekends. That said, I have my phone with me at work, and if I have downtime I'll sneak in some mobile tags.
Plot Preferences: Sami has a lot of possibilities, both for stuff branching off her actual backstory as well as AUs. I'm happy to AU her into most settings, but I do struggle to write her with magical stuff outside of, say, Marvel or fantasy settings. Vampires and werewolves and other monsters might be a struggle. Aliens probably would work, perhaps in a Star Trek or Star Wars setting where it's kind of baked in to the setting and I can figure out a way to slap her in there. 
I love angst and fluff in equal measure, and while I'm not the best at writing action threads it definitely fits for Sami's character so I will do my best. Smut is fine, but not necessary, and I do prefer a little buildup of CR first, unless approached to plot something. Definitely fine to fade to black if that's your preference! Just let me know.
Cross-medium: I am very choosy when it comes to cross-medium interactions. I don't have a lot of familiarity with a lot of animated canons, especially anime, so I'm hesitant to engage. My preference is for more "realistic" looking animation, or properties I'm familiar with. Most 3D rendered stuff is fine. Strange faces squick me - this includes some practical effects/prosthetics used for certain live action roles. It's a mix of being strongly affected by uncanny valley, and also an aversion to things I interpret as body horror. As a result I have to be careful with interactions for my own comfort. There's also the added issue (for me) that some animated characters look like children to me regardless of their canon age, and I'm not interested in interacting with anything like that in any context. 
Triggers & Limits: I like to say that when it comes to writing, I don't have triggers so much as I have squicks. I might get grossed out and uncomfortable, but it's not really causing a mental health issue for me, like a trigger would. The biggest squick I can think of for me would be any kind of eye-related gore or imagery. I'm also trypophobic, which I think ties into that. The typical "nopes" like animal cruelty/bestiality and toilet stuff are definitely off the table. I also don't want to do gore or torture for the sake of it - it'd have to tell a story.

Given Sami's history with domestic violence and drug abuse, here is a disclaimer: if you have any topics you wish for me to avoid in threads with you, please let me know. Comments on this entry are screened in case you would like to respond with avoided topic requests here rather than in a DM.

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 It was only a matter of time before I got around to throwing it up on here too! 

My second completed run was with Sami (dubbed Samira, because I like how it sounds) where I played her as an Open Hand Monk. I currently have two more runs going with her, one she's multi-classed into Cleric and Monk (Four Elements Monk, Trickery Domain Cleric of Tymora), and a Dark Urge run (she started out as Drunken Master Monk there, but I'm not really feeling it, so I she's a Four Elements Monk there for now). I'm not that far into the Durge run, but I know she's going to be Resisting. 

Her background could be either Soldier or Acolyte, and I can adjust her backstory accordingly. Both work pretty well for her and how I imagine her history before the tadpole. 

In all of her playthroughs, she's romancing Gale. She meets that silly wizard and falls in love with him from the word hello, it simply cannot be helped whenever I start a Sami run. As far as RP goes, though, that would be incredible but it's of course not required. Cases could be made to ship her with other male characters, particularly Wyll. 

The first run, she made it to Act 3 without Shadowheart and Lae/zel, but they're still with her in the subsequent runs. So her relationship to them could be anything from frosty to friendly. Samira and Karlach are like birds of a feather, the first run they were total besties. 

 Also totally willing to play her without being a Tav or Durge, just hanging around as either a camp follower or some other ally. 

I'll add some screenshots in the comments for visual aids. And, since I'm still playing, I'll update this post as I think of more stuff. 
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Sami (Samira Grace for the purposes of any fantasy AU) is very Northern Coded. She's from Canada, she likes the cold. It just works.

It's probably most likely she'd be a Wildling (very similar to Val and in fact I've seen Katheryn Winnick fancast as Val, lol). But she could be from any Northern House, noble or bastard or common. She'd bully and/or charm her way into being trained with weapons - if she's from North of the Wall, this will just be part of her normal upbringing.

I'd actually love to do an inversion of the Wildling tradition of men stealing wives, and have her steal a husband.

Alternatively she could be from Essos, maybe Braavos, or simply ending up there. She could be one of the Faceless Men, actually. They trained Arya, so they do accept women.

As far as Westerosi houses she could be from, I mean, anywhere in the North? Perhaps in the Vale - her coloring is similar to how Jon Arryn is described. The Reach would work too, she could be a Tyrell or a Hightower. It'd be more of a stretch for her to be Valyrian, but I'm willing to roll with it. Any House that has characters described as fair-haired and/or blue-eyed, really.

Any point in the timeline is fine, whether it's HotD times or GoT or something else. I could come up with something to stick her in anywhere. (And eventually I'll be uploading some Vikings icons for the Aesthetic, I am not making a separate account this time, lol.)

I mostly ship her with male characters, but she would be a great protector of women, like Brienne of Tarth. She could easily swear her sword to a noble lady/queen, or also like Brienne want to join a Kingsguard/Queensguard. Arranged marriages are always a possibility too, though she'd be a bit of an older bride. There are possibilities for "spoils of war" scenarios which is also appealing.

Making her a sellsword or even a pit fighter in Essos would also be a very easy option, or otherwise having her sold into slavery. (Wildlings are considered viable options once Daenerys starts wreaking havoc in Slaver's Bay, or she could be born in Essos.)

Even if she's noble, she's not particularly special as far as dragon blood or green-sight/warging goes. She may possess dormant abilities to pass on to any potential children, but she would not show any magical skill. Her true talents are in physical combat and also in learning languages. She is good on horseback and can joust, but she is not a skin-changer.

I picked Iain Glen as her father in her default/canon, but obviously that wouldn't be the case in any GoT AUs. Ser Jorah is not her father, lmao.
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MULTIPLE THREADS - definitely
BACKTAGGING -  i can be slow, so yes
THREADJACKING - in certain circumstances with prior discussion
FLIRTING - yes, though she may not reciprocate
HUGGING -  depending on the situation, absolutely
KISSING - same answer as hugging
HITTING - she will probably hit back
INJURING - she will defend herself
KILLING -  no
MINDREADING - not without prior IC interaction and OOC discussion.

Sam wasn't created with any specific canon in mind, though she could fit in with anything that more or less has a "real world" setting. She's very normal, by default, nothing superhuman or supernatural about her at all. I do have Marvel AU ideas for her, and I'm open to playing her in certain sci-fi or fantasy settings with AU conditions.

Outside of those circumstances, she does not play with magical and supernatural settings well. Vampires, werewolves, monsters, witches, any kind of "urban fantasy" I guess, has not worked very well - but it's something I'm willing to work on. I'm willing to try if there's chemistry in the threads. 

I will try to always label things accordingly and make it very clear what will work for her when I'm posting her top-level to any given meme, if I feel any such clarifications are necessary. I'm also always open to any questions about this, or about Sam in general. Feel free to comment here (comments will be screened), or send a private message.

This quirk in her character may result in me not responding to things. If it's not something that works for her, I'm just going to leave it be. It's nothing personal - and chances are I'll probably have another character that would work better, so please don't think it means I don't want to RP with you at all!

At some point I think I'll make a more comprehensive list of preferred canons to write her in, so look out for that.

As far as other OCs go, I am of course very open to other original characters! Just... usually not the supernatural/magical types, lol. I'm also highly choosy about cross-medium. I prefer live-action characters, or "realistic" animated ones. Anime and more cartoonish things can be fine, but I don't feel comfortable interacting with very young-looking (to me) characters regardless of their canon age or the context of the interaction. Also due to the nature of Sam's character and the difficulty in getting her to play well with non-humans/magical stuff, I'm going to be very choosy about inter-species interaction. If it's something I think she can vibe with, I'll give it a shot. If not, again, nothing personal. 

The good news is, it's getting easier for me to write her in these kinds of settings and with these kinds of characters. It's still something I'm playing by ear, because I'm still having just a little trouble throwing her into every situation. But this is definitely something that has improved for me!

I cannot stress this enough - you are always welcome to ask. I'm very accessible.

AUs

Feb. 27th, 2023 09:49 am
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Gym Teacher AU:

Inspired by her brother, Sam actually goes to university for her proper degrees and certifications. Jay talks a lot about wanting to coach when his hockey career is, over (or if his hockey career doesn't pan out), so she decides to follow that path. Instead she focused on physical education, hoping to in turn inspire new generations.

She's strict but fair, some might say she's a cool teacher. She volunteers to chaperone events, and tries to include everyone in classroom activities. When she was in high school herself she'd been fairly popular with everyone, and that tends to show in the way she can connect to students from all different cliques.  

Star Wars AU: 

Samira Mox sometimes finds work as a bodyguard, sometimes as a prize fighter, and other times doing far more unsavory tasks. She's had a rough life, losing her family when she was fairly young. She had to carve her own way out, oftentimes ruthlessly so. Her talents lie mostly with hand-to-hand combat, fighting with various styles which she uses to defeat a range of foes, some even much larger than herself.

In her youth she was rather more fearsome, though now as she's grown older and matured, she's softened just enough. But for all her attitude, she isn't a bully, she tries not to take advantage of those weaker, or those with less. In her line of work, that has proven to be difficult to do, and it's gotten her into trouble with some very powerful, bad figures.

Note: I know just enough about Star Wars to slot her in as a general fighty character and interact around the films/shows, I might get some stuff wrong. Please bear with me, there's a lot of stuff to know, lmao.


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Her twenties were rather tumultuous, with addiction issues and an extremely abusive relationship. She spent years with Randy, trying to leave a few times with things escalating after each escape attempt. It got to the point where Sam was genuinely afraid for her life, and she finally enlists the help of her family - mostly her brother - to help her get away.

Randy somehow found out about Sam's plan. She wasn't ever sure how that happened, whether Randy simply snooped or one of their mutual friends caught wind of the plan and told him. But when the time came to put her plan in motion, he was there to stop her. An intense fight ensued, with the two of them basically tearing apart their shared apartment. It ended with Trav grabbing a knife, stabbing Sam in the lower abdomen as she was continuing to fight back. She managed to shove him away from her, which caused him to fall down a flight of stairs behind him.

Her brother arrived then, finding Randy motionless at the bottom of the stairs, and his sister collapsed on the floor in a rapidly growing pool of blood. Jay acted quickly to administer what little first aid he could and call for an ambulance, actions that would save Sam's life.

In the fall down the stairs, Randy had suffered a severe brain injury, and it was unknown how much he would recover, if at all. He and Sam were both taken to the nearest hospital, with Sam undergoing emergency surgery to treat her stab wound, during which one of her ovaries was removed. She already has fertility issues on top of it, so the likelihood of her getting pregnant and having a successful pregnancy goes down farther at this point.

When she came to, her father and brother were both there, and she was able to fill them in on what had happened. Despite literally saving her life, Jay felt guilty that he hadn't arrived sooner. Sam never blamed him for that, of course.

Officers interviewed her, preparing her statements in the event that Randy recovered enough to be arrested and face charges.

Suffice it to say, he didn't recover enough.

When Samantha left that hospital, she was free. From there, she split her time between staying with her brother and her father, finishing up her recovery from the stabbing as well as her addiction issues. She still drank from time to time, and couldn't fully kick the cigarette habit, but she was completely clean of any other drugs.

***

AU version, is all of this, except Sam became a single mother around 19 or 20 (not Randy's kid). Sam as a mom thoughts: 

Despite her thinking she wouldn't be, she's actually a pretty good mom. She lost her own mother quite young, and what she remembers is bittersweet. In her mothering style, Sam tries to honor the best of her mother and let it guide her.

Her fa.ther and brother help out a lot with raising them. Though the kid - I lean toward her having a son but this isn't a permanent decision by any means - doesn't grow up with their father, they have two amazing male role models in their life with Uncle Jared and Papa Neil.

The child's father is dependent on the story. If another RPer is down to take on the role, I'm absolutely down for that, and we can hash out relevant details. Otherwise I can kinda just make up an NPC old boyfriend. It's cool either way!

It's in Sam's family and medical history that fertility is a struggle for the women in her family, including Sam herself. She was unlikely to have one healthy child, so this one is practically a miracle. Her stabbing basically makes it rare that she could biological children. Sometimes she's a little sad about this, thinking it might be cool to give her only child a brother or sister, but she's also aware that she's incredibly blessed already. She can make peace with the situation.

If you got this far, thanks for reading. <3

Basic Bio

Mar. 20th, 2017 06:13 pm
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Thirty-something. Canadian. Professional ass-kicker for hire. Amateur bartender, also for hire. Pain-in-the-ass, free of charge.

She grew up outside of Toronto with her father and brother, having lost her mother at a young age. Her dad had played in the NHL, and while it was a struggle to find the time to devote to his two children, Neil Murphy never let his kids want for anything.

Always into athletics and competition, Sam played hockey as a girl, until she was kicked out of the girls’ league for being too rough. It was then that her father decided to get her into amateur wrestling, and she took to it like a duck to water.

From there the progression into professional wrestling was a natural one. She had always been a fan, staying up late to watch matches with her brother, reenacting some of their favorite moments in the backyard… so when she found the ad in the classifieds for a wrestling school, it was a given that she’d sign up.

Her skills were unrivaled, and for the most part the only things holding her back from breaking into the big leagues were her gender and her habit of getting into trouble. Still, she made a pretty big name for herself on the indie scene, traveling throughout Canada and the US, even down to Mexico to hone her skills. She would go on to travel England and Japan, staying to learn the local style wherever she went.

Japan turned out to be a bit of a niche for her, and Sam’s career was just beginning to blossom as she competed there. “Hardcore” wrestling had begun trending heavily in Japan; matches that consisted of brutally attacking one’s opponent with weapons, and though the endings were predetermined, the damage was real. It ended up being the end of her career. She was finally getting noticed by larger wrestling companies when she these hardcore matches began to take their toll on her.

Banged up and depressed, she turned to painkillers to get her through the day. Before long, she was hopelessly addicted. She wrestled where she could, found illegal street fights where she couldn’t, and scrounged up the money to survive in any way possible. But though she sold her body for violence, she never did so for sex.

During this time late in her career, when she was pulled deepest into her addiction. she ended up in a very toxic relationship with a man who abused her. She didn't see it as abuse for a long time, because she hurt him as much as he hurt her, albeit in her case it was almost always in self-defense. Things between them would escalate, with Sam trying to leave every so often until one night things went too far. From then on, he was out of her life.

By her twenty-sixth birthday, Sami was in rough shape. It took a family intervention, starting with her brother saving her life, to get her to start heading down the path to recovery. At twenty-nine, she was finally clean, and every year she celebrates one more year without the pills.
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YES:
Vanilla / romantic / lots of passion
light bondage
light violence / fighting-leads-to-sex
oral (giving and receiving)
anal (penetration and oral)
pegging
sex toys
height / size differences
age differences
creampies and/or cumshots
cliche porn tropes (doctor, teacher, cop, boss, etc.)
dubcon
costumes
voyeurism & exhibitionism (public sex!)
secret affairs & sneaky sex
masturbation
cyber & phone sex
spanking & hairpulling
dirty talk
drugs
crossdressing

NO:
incest
animals
toilet stuff
unrealistically huge cocks
extreme gore / vore

PREFERENCES & SAM'S SEXUAL STYLE:
Sam prefers big, strong types, but she can be compatible (personality-wise and sexually) with many different types of men. Usually she isn't that much into kink unless she's really horny and/or really into someone. She can definitely be talked into trying new things if she can get to trust someone. Mostly she's pretty vanilla even if she has some more spicy fantasies. Though she's a fan of rougher sex, she doesn't like being choked and will react extremely badly if anyone attempts to do so. Even just a hand or hands casually at her neck may set her off.

She will take female lovers if she's feeling desperate, seeking out extremely submissive types of women to keep control of the situation. If said submissive woman pushed Sam's buttons, it could result in some rough, possibly demeaning behavior, but it's not something Sam would actively seek out to do. She might enjoy it some, she'd just have to be pushed into that sort of action.

Conversely, she'll likely be more submissive with men (especially a man she likes a lot), but she's also happy to take charge if he's into that sort of thing. The idea of treating a man like her little bitch is something she'd want to try.

On a more general note, but this sort of does relate back to smut-- Sam doesn't play well with magical/supernatural types. She's very reluctant to believe in anything like that at all, so I'd suggest proceeding with caution regarding that.

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